Jan
06
What solutions do you need for your family?
ByThis morning I woke up to this powerful email from a person I am working with seeking help for her son, daughter in law and parents and I thought you would enjoy seeing the possibilities of what love and healing can do.
Bill,
Thank you again for calling today. I hope that you understood what I was trying to express tonight. I am sorry if I seemed to be challenging your ability to discern the truth; it was not that I underestimate your talent and gifts, it is just that I know firsthand the influence my husband has on people.
Bill, I wanted to let you know that I talked tonight with my daughter in law, who is married to our middle son. I believe that I mentioned to you that initially he has always been very close to his Dad and was very angry with me for leaving and disconnected for 6 months; he was angry and in denial and left town to go to another state. That was the best thing as while away he began to see his father as he really is and witnessed his rages with others and in essence experienced his fathers wrath, vindictiveness and out of control behaviors. He became emotionally responsible for his Dad and took my place.
My son has now disconnected from that role as it was killing him inside and of course loves his Dad but has put up boundaries now that are healthier.
I mentioned to my sons wife my conversations with you and she thought it might be good for my son and his Dad to work together with you, if you felt that would be helpful.
In addition my daughter in laws parents are struggling with their marriage and she has been searching for a tool/program that might help them to reconnect. I told her that that is what you do and she felt that possibly she & my son could encourage them to do this with them and they might be open to that. I recall you mentioning Bill you do weekend trainings away from home and if you want you could use our condo where you and Linda could work with them.
I told her that I would forward to her your website www.mcgrane.com info and your phone number
859-384-6333 as well but thought it might help to give you this little intro in the event she calls you will know who she is. She is precious, new in her faith as she was raised in the church, and so wanting to grow in her walk and become the woman that God created her to be. You will love her. My son is brilliant, charismatic, tender but very strong and an incredible communicator. He is trying to learn what seeking God is all about. They were married in the last year.
In sharing them with you Bill I am entrusting you with my heart on another level, as my children are where my treasure is…I know you understand that. I hope that the Lord will use this introduction to bring connection and joy back into her parents lives. Her heart has been so burdened for them and they are wonderful people.
Thanks Bill and I look forward to speaking with you soon.
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