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Employer Issue
Posted by: | CommentsYears ago, a woman was invited to attend the five day program by a boyfriend because her self esteem was so low he knew she needed a boost. As a saleswoman, she received criticism from her peers and mentor at work so she put off coming to the program. She began to spiral downward, became disheveled and it became apparent that it was no longer negotiable to go to the program, shew KNEW she had to GO!!
Her unhealthy relationship with her father caused a nasty breakup and divorce with her first marriage as it too was unhealthy. Her husband, like her father, was controlling and did not allow her to be who she was created to be. Living with three children, her frustration increased to a point of being unbearable and she found out she was not grounded.
When she had completed the program, she found out who she really was and no longer was a people pleaser seeking unhealthy love.
However, the story does not end here…..
Bill McGrane – McGrane Global Centers
A couple’s story
Posted by: | CommentsThe professional couple entered the room with much anticipation. After just a few minutes, you could tell they were in love with each other but did not know how to communicate this to their counterpart. How did they get to the point of short tempers and lack of time together? After twenty years of marriage, their tanks were on empty and they did not know where to find a filling station.
This is where they began to learn the principle of value judging. You see, because they had unmet expectations, they walked in conditional love. This drained their relationship and each of them personally. The husband felft his wife wanted a luxurious lifestyle so he poured himself into his work and took on many responsibilities of other assignments to increase his income. This left his wife with the sole responsibility of the children and all house duties. Inside she cried for her children as she attended their sports games with an absent father. When the father missed one of his children’s most important life events, she cried knowing the time could never be made up…
All she really wanted was a husband and a father to be home so they could share in family events. All he wanted was to spend time with his family but could not because he felt trapped in his own world — the never ending vicious cycle.
When they identified the area of breakdown, they quickly apologized to each other and chose to love through the eyes of their hearts and not their heads.
Watching the transformation of years of anguish and disappointment into love and acceptance through these two individuals brought life to me – amazing me once again even after all these years of helping people mend their marriages.
Are you willing to take the risk of being uncomfortable to mend that broken relationship through one simple tool?
How do we inspire ourselves to greatness?
Posted by: | CommentsHow do we inspire ourselves to greatness when nothing else will do?
Have you seen the movie Invictus? If you have not I encourage you to go right away if you are a person looking for inspiration toward your own and loftier goals for your community and the world.
Some may say the story line is too simple, yet that simplicity is what makes it so powerful.
Do you have visions of dreams and goals not yet fulfilled? Do you seek a higher place in life then you are right now? Then I challenge you like the movies does to get past your past and reasons you can’t and just go out there this day and year and make the impossible - possible.
Choose the other rode less traveled without fear or disruption from your intent and experience an exhilaration that will remove the doubt and replace it with new vigor and vitality toward your ambitions.
This is a time when we need new leaders with fresh ideas to come beyond the ordinary and choose the extraordinary. If you are one of those people blog me letting me know your ideas for action. Allow yourself to move into your greatness and unlock the doors to new opportunities inspired by your optimism causing your ne sayer’s to be humbled with vitalized energy for a new fresh start.
Yes, you are the only person who can flip that switch that ignites the fuel for action on your road to your destiny. Get started now and let’s do something bodacious.
