Holiday family dynamics
ByWhat’s your plan for family dynamics? Has someone during this holiday season tested your resolve to give love?
With all the coming together or in laws and out laws I am sure you have some amazing stories that tested you. The question is did you pass the test?
You may find yourself wanting to give someone a piece of your mind. Or just blurt out all the things you have wanted to say all of your life to this person.
Instead of lowering your standards take higher ground and be the person you have always wanted to be. I know you probably think you need to straighten them out. What will that accomplish? Who really wins?
Now is the time to show them whether they know it or not all that growth and maturity you have grown into.
My Dad always said it takes no skill to cuss someone out. So be the person, yes you.
You say you are having a hard time getting past their behavior or actions? Maybe they spilled something on your new outfit or ground food into your new carpet. Get over it!
If so focus on what unites you together instead of divides you. It may be as simple as you are both human beings on the planets. Enjoy
Give them love back. Just do it!
Share with us some of your funny stories.
