Archive for Peace and harmony
Are You Having Marital Problems?
Posted by: | CommentsThe divorce rate in America is still noticeably high.
I was recently talking with a couple that was going through some hard times. They are fairly young, both successful, healthy, and seemed to have the ball in their court. They got married a few years back, and everything seemed to turn sour after the wedding. They started to notice characteristics that annoyed them and got on their nerves. They recently had a baby girl, and are desperately trying to save their marriage because of her. They want to give her the stability and structure that a complete home and family life can offer. The love is there, but the deep connection has been lost.
So how do you go about repairing that connection? There are many ways to increase the bond between a husband and wife. You need to ask yourself, “Why did we get married in the first place?” Rediscover what drew you two together. Look deep inside and find out what you truly love about your spouse.
Honesty and openness is very important to create a healthy marriage. You have to be honest with each other and let the other one know what bothers you. Let them know what you want to be changed. You have to open yourself up to accept their love and have a willingness to change. Sometimes, the damages are irreversible. Sometimes one side of the couple has done something that can never be forgiven. It is ultimately up to you to figure out if you can forgive. forget and move on, or end the marriage.
All I ask is that you fight. Fight for your husband or wife’s love. Fight for the chance to prove yourself and the chance to improve the way you behave. Don’t give up easy. Dig deep and give your best effort to make things work. Let us fight with you. Together we can figure out the problem, and fight towards correcting it.
Creating Balance
Posted by: | CommentsA balanced life is a happy productive life.
Creating balance in your life doesn’t happen over night. It takes a lot of time, fine tuning, and creativity.
Over the years, you fall into a routine. You figure out what works for you and what doesn’t. You find out the ways to maximize your day and be efficient as possible. This is a great technique to create balance in your life. If you are clear and honest with you personal and professional goals and duties, then you can work around your day to accomplish or work towards accomplishing what you need to do. Throughout your life, you need to fine-tune your routine. Take a look at your day-to-day activities and find out if there is anything you could be doing better to balance out your life. You may have to use some creativity to squeeze in time for fun activities to balance out your 40+ hour work week or taking care of the kids 24/7.
What ways do you create balance in your life?
Have you noticed your life becoming unbalanced over the years?
Creating balance in your life usually takes a life time. It is a never ending ever changing journey that we all need to spend time working on. Having too much of anything is usually a bad thing. When we balance ourselves out, we will be happier and more productive because we are getting most of everything we NEED and WANT to be done, done.
How do you look at those you love?
Posted by: | CommentsWhen you look at your loved ones, can they sense TUL (total unconditional love)?
You can say a lot, without saying anything at all. Nonverbal communication is very powerful and noticeable. If you are the type of person that does not have exceptional nonverbal communication skills, then I suggest working hard on improving them. The people you spend the most time with (family, friends, etc.) can pick up on negative nonverbal communication easily because they know you so well. That is why it is important to always practice positive nonverbal communication, even if you are having a bad day.
Looking at your loved ones with TUL can drastically improve their spirits and let them know that you truly love them. Be attentive when others are speaking, and even if you are not, seem genuinely interested. Look at your loved ones with passion and sincerity. Don’t let a bad day at the office carry over into your personal life. If you come home and are in a bad mood and don’t want to talk to your family, they feel like it is something they did wrong. Try to leave all thoughts of negativity and worries at the office or wherever their origins may be.
Just simply looking at your loved ones with TUL can strengthen your relationships and bring you more peace of mind. If you put yourself in a good mood, others will feed off of it and be in a good mood as well.
Put forth the effort to always send positive nonverbal communication signals to the ones you love, and everyone will benefit.
Practice TUL everyday!
