Archive for Interpersonal communication skills
Friendship
Posted by: | CommentsMost people don’t want to be alone all the time, it’s only natural to want companionship. Humans by nature are social animals and to live a life void of socialization is something not many people would enjoy. In order to create a social life for ourselves we reach out to like-minded people and form bonds. These bonds of friendship are precious and to many a necessity, but are you taking your friendship for granted?
Most friendships are built on trust, your friends should know you are there for them and they can confide in you. In order to make your friendships grow you should let your friends know you care. Let them know you’ll be there for them if they ever need you. If your friends know they can count on you, your bond will only become stronger.
Friendships are like flowers if you nurture them they grow but if you neglect them they wither and die. They also take work, trust doesn’t just form overnight. So work on making your friendships as strong as they can be, that way you won’t ever have to feel alone.
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Remember to treat everyone with TUL, Total Unconditional Love, and have a wonderful day!
The Golden Rule
Posted by: | Comments“Treat others the way you want to be treated,” this is known as the golden rule and many of us probably first leaned of this in elementary school. But as people get older some tend to forget this this golden rule and treat others with negativity. But the golden rule is too important to disregard.
If you want to have great relationships and form unbreakable bonds with people you must first learn to fallow the golden rule and treat others with TUL, Total Unconditional Love. If you don’t treat others with TUL then you can’t expect to receive it yourself. But in order to treat others with TUL you must first love and respect yourself for who you are. How can you expect to love others if you can’t love yourself?
So love and respect yourself for all that you are, and fallow the golden rule by treating others with TUL.
Have a wonderful and euphoric day!
Forgiveness
Posted by: | CommentsIs there someone in your life that wronged you and because of that your relationship with them became strained or ended? Has that person expressed regret for their actions, but your relationship with them is still in turmoil?
If you answered yes to both of those questions then you probably haven’t truly forgiven that person.
Many people do or say things they regret, that end up hurting someone they care about. This could be because they didn’t think things through, or maybe because they too are hurting and they lashed out as way to try and alleviate their pain.
It is important to understand that everyone makes mistakes. Exercising forgiveness and giving someone a second chance can save what could be or already was a meaningful relationship.
It is not healthy to carry resentment and anger in your heart. These negative emotions can lead to stress and possibly depression. At the same time it’s not easy to forgive, it takes courage to give someone a second chance because you possibly risk being hurt again. But if you don’t give them the benefit of the doubt you could end up losing something very precious. Anyone can carry resentment, but it takes great strength and a true test of character to forgive.
Forgiveness leads to personal growth and could even raise your self-esteem. So why not try and forgive? You might just like what you find.
Remember to treat people with TUL, Total Unconditional Love, and Have a great day!
