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Dec

What solutions do you need for your family?

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

This morning I woke up to this powerful email from a person I am working with seeking help for her son, daughter in law and parents and I thought you would enjoy seeing the possibilities of what love and healing can do.

Bill,

Thank you again for calling today. I hope that you understood what I was trying to express tonight. I am sorry if I seemed to be challenging your ability to discern the truth; it was not that I underestimate your talent and gifts, it is just that I know firsthand the influence my husband has on people.

Bill, I wanted to let you know that I talked tonight with my daughter in law, who is married to our middle son. I believe that I mentioned to you that initially he has always been very close to his Dad and was very angry with me for leaving and disconnected for 6 months; he was angry and in denial and left town to go to another state. That was the best thing as while away he began to see his father as he really is and witnessed his rages with others and in essence experienced his fathers wrath, vindictiveness and out of control behaviors. He became emotionally responsible for his Dad and took my place.

My son has now disconnected from that role as it was killing him inside and of course loves his Dad but has put up boundaries now that are healthier.

I mentioned to my sons wife my conversations with you and she thought it might be good for my son and his Dad to work together with you, if you felt that would be helpful.

In addition my daughter in laws parents are struggling with their marriage and she has been searching for a tool/program that might help them to reconnect. I told her that that is what you do and she felt that possibly she & my son could encourage them to do this with them and they might be open to that. I recall you mentioning Bill you do weekend trainings away from home and if you want you could use our condo where you and Linda could work with them.

I told her that I would forward to her your website www.mcgrane.com info and your phone number

859-384-6333 as well but thought it might help to give you this little intro in the event she calls you will know who she is. She is precious, new in her faith as she was raised in the church, and so wanting to grow in her walk and become the woman that God created her to be. You will love her. My son is brilliant, charismatic, tender but very strong and an incredible communicator. He is trying to learn what seeking God is all about. They were married in the last year.

In sharing them with you Bill I am entrusting you with my heart on another level, as my children are where my treasure is…I know you understand that. I hope that the Lord will use this introduction to bring connection and joy back into her parents lives. Her heart has been so burdened for them and they are wonderful people.

Thanks Bill and I look forward to speaking with you soon.

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Categories : Better relationships, Communicating effectively, Family Legacy, Peace and harmony, Self-Esteem, marriage

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Dec

Tiss the season to be joyful

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

Yes, this is the season for peace on earth. How are you doing? No really,
how are you?

It’s important that no matter what is going on for you that you keep the peace and joy in your heat.

You say how can you do it with so much left to do? Focus on being a human being vs a human doing during this season of family and friends. And if you are feeling lonely or not as connected to others find what you can appreciate because somewhere in the world there are so many more less fortunate than you.

Another way to enjoy this season is to give the gift of you through affirmation. Write a card or loving letter to a family member or friend. The ultimate gift is to share your loving care to someone you have never met or does not expect something from you. There are so many lonely people now and you could be the spark that brightens their day.

You can energize your day by also affirming yourself. Do you feel like you have not been as well behaved as Santa might like you to be? Join the club we each can do better. Focus today on what you are doing well and see how your life improves by experiencing the blessing you are and sharing that loving energy with others. You and those you connect with will be better off today.

Count your blessings and trully enjoy this beautiful time of year.

Categories : Better relationships, Communicating effectively, Family Legacy, Move Into Your Greatness, Peace and harmony, Self-Esteem

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Nov

When is the last time you experienced pure joy?

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

Can you remember the last time you experienced pure and overwhelming joy?

The type of joy where you couldn’t wipe the smile off of your face for anything in the world. The type of joy that makes you a nicer person to others and brings you closer to you loved ones .

I love it when something joyful pops into my life unexpectedly. A few weeks ago, one of my great friends called me up after a long time of not speaking to each other, and told me he is getting married. He was married before but unfortunately, things didn’t work out. He was really depressed there for a while, and I really felt for him. I was always there for him, but sometimes words can only heal so much. Well when he called me, he sounded like a completely different person. He was so full of joy about his recent engagement, that it was contagious. I found myself in a wonderful mood that couldn’t be broken. His joy was so vibrant it seemed to shine directly through to my soul. I could feel the remarkable power of goodwill and an optimistic outlook.

When was the last time you felt this way? If the answer is not in a long time, try and seek out joy. It is all around us, waiting for us to to open our hearts and accept love and happiness.

If you have recently been down in the dumps and not your usual happy self, do whatever it takes to get some joy in your life. For me, the little things seem to bring me a lot of joy. But if your not careful, these little things can pass you by and go undetected.

What brings you the most joy in your life?

Have you experienced these feelings recently in your life?

What hobbies or activities bring you happiness and peace of mind?

As I said, for me, its the little things in life.

The old saying is true, the best things in life ARE free.

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