Archive for March, 2010

Mar
23

Are you a hyper-thinker?

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

Do you have a hard time calming yourself down and staying focused on one topic?

This is a problem for many innovative thinkers.  They will become overwhelmed with ideas and cannot effectively concentrate on one subject.  They are bombarded with these new and creative thoughts, and before you know it, more new and creative thoughts stem from the original one.  When this happens, we need to stop, take a break, and take a look at the direction we are going.

When you first come up with a great thought or idea, write it down.  Then focus completely and sincerely on this topic and see where it takes you.  If a new idea surfaces, write it down on a different piece of paper and come back to it later.  You can also tweak your original idea with bits and pieces from new thoughts that come up.  For some people, once they get on a “roll” it is hard for them to stop, and their ideas are scattered all over the place like the area a shotgun blast covers.  So once you are finished tweaking and taking other factors of different ideas and incorporating them into your original idea, hold on to that vision.  Keep renewing it each day. This will help to imprint the vision onto your subconscious. Usually within a month or less (sometimes much less), you’ll see evidence that this vision is already becoming real for you.

These creative thinkers often have so many ideas come at them at once, that they cannot pr0dutively focus on one topic.  Their gift of deep passion and creativity is sometimes both a gift and a curse.  It will allow them to come up with these amazing ideas, but at the same time hinder them because of numerous external ideas and thoughts getting in the way.

Overall, you need to come up with a solid idea, tweak it to your specifications, and then stay focused.  Don’t let other ideas come between you and your goal.

Have you known someone that puts themselves in this position often?

Does this happen often to you?

Leave comments or stories of ANY similar events that  have happened to you or someone you know in your life.

McGrane Global Centers

Mar
22

Additional one thing comments

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

We continue to receive great ideas.  Here are some more for your review:

To me the greatest concept you teach in your course is the principle of self image vs. self esteem. Before attending your course, those two phrases were just words  and they had almost the same meaning. Now I understand what it truly means and the power it has to have great self esteem instead of a great self image.

Before, I was trying to keep up a self image that I and others thought I should be. It was a culmination of events and people throughout my life trying to put me in a box or label me. Thus forming an image that I believed I needed to uphold.  And by doing so, I was lying to myself and others to maintain that image.

Now, I know that self esteem is what is really important. Once I began to build self esteem by loving myself and others unconditionally, all the self image stuff no longer was of any importance. And that was achieved by learning how to live in the moment and not get lost in the past or what is to come in the future. It is truly a life changing process.

What are your comments?

McGrane Global Centers

Mar
21

The Cab Ride

Posted by: Bill | Comments (0)

A story for your pleasure…

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes
walked to the door and knocked.. ‘Just a minute’, answered a frail, elderly
voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90’s stood before
me. She was wearing a
print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned
on it, like somebody out of a 1940’s movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one
had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the
counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and
glassware.

‘Would you carry my bag out to the car?’ she said. I took the suitcase to
the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me
for my kindness. ‘It’s nothing’, I told her.. ‘I just try to treat my
passengers
the way I would want my mother treated’.

‘Oh, you’re such a good boy’, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me
an address and then asked, ‘Could you drive through downtown?’

‘It’s not the shortest way,’ I answered quickly..

‘Oh, I don’t mind,’ she said. ‘I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice’.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. ‘I don’t have
any family left,’ she continued in a soft voice.. ‘The doctor says I don’t
have very
long.’ I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

‘What route would you like me to take?’ I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the
building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when
they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse
that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she’d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner
and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, ‘I’m
tired. Let’s go now’.

We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building,
like a small convalescent home,  with a driveway that passed under a
portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were
solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been
expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was
already seated in a wheelchair.

‘How much do I owe you?’ she asked, reaching into her purse.

‘Nothing,’ I said.

‘You have to make a living,’ she answered.

‘There are other passengers,’ I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me
tightly.

‘You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,’ she
said. ‘Thank you.’

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me,
a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove
aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.
What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to
end his shift?
What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked
once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in
my life.

We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve
around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully
wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY
WHAT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID ~YET~THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE
THEM
FEEL.

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